Dr. Nicoleta Dragan

Guiding others toward emotional wellbeing has been the focus of my professional life for the past decade. 

My formal and informal education are focused at the intersection of psychology, neurodiversity, neuroscience, education, and leadership. I have a master’s degree in clinical psychology, a postmaster credential in school psychology, and a doctorate in educational leadership (EdD). My academic background provides me with a broad perspective on the importance of education in emotional wellbeing.

More than a decade ago, I discovered the concept of self-compassion, which is associated with many positive outcomes including increased psychological wellbeing, self-efficacy, motivation, self-worth, physiological functioning, and positive interpersonal relationships, as well as decreased psychopathology.

My intrigue in the subject led me to studying it, starting my own self-compassion practice, and ultimately researching it.

I started practicing self-compassion with the hope that my own personal experience would meet the findings of the scientific research.

The more studies I read on the subject and the more I practiced it, the more interested I became in sharing the knowledge and benefits of self-compassion with as many people as I could. 

I started by introducing the concept to my clients within the psychotherapy process. What I witnessed was my clients becoming kinder with themselves and developing their ability to hold difficult emotions without judgment. 

In parallel, I continuously talked about self-compassion with family and friends. Soon enough, their own stories of discovering love and kindness for themselves started to unfold.

The research literature, my own experience, and the experiences of those around me who were practicing self-compassion triggered my desire to deepen my knowledge in this practice through my doctoral studies, asking the following: Where does it come from? When does it start to develop? What factors influence its development? 

When I started designing my research study, I already had a deep understanding of the research literature on attachment and the influence of the early caregiving environment on our emotional development and capacity for emotion regulation. I also understood how shame, if unnamed, could poison every aspect of our lives, including our love toward ourselves. 

Through my study, I examined the role of the early caregiving environment, shame, and emotion regulation on self-compassion. The study was later published in the scientific journal, Mindfulness. Click here to read the article.

My research on self-compassion touched both my personal and professional life in significant and meaningful ways. Aside from deepening my understanding of the benefits of self-compassion for our psychological, physical, and relational wellbeing, it also fueled my dream of a world in which every person extends compassion toward one’s self. 

Beingfuliyou is my commitment to introduce the concept of self-compassion to larger audiences and guide those interested in the process of developing a loving, kind, and compassionate relationship with one's self.

Nicoleta